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HOW SAFE IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

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                  Love and Emotional Safety Safety in Relationship. Do you feel OK telling your partner your secrets? Are you comfortable telling your partner the errors or mistakes you made or make (past and present)?  Many people suffer emotionally from situations like this. Where they don't even know what to relay to their partners. They live in silence and pretense not because they want to or like it. But for peace to reign.  Safety in relationship is so important. It affects the very things that make relationships last long. Some of these things are: Trust When you don't feel safe to speak plainly with your partner it erodes the trust you have in the relationship. You begin, gradually, to loose confidence in the relationship.  Love Where there is no trust there can not be true love. And where there is no safety, there will be fear. The opposite of love is fear. So, safety provides the atm...
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The Best Way to Find Love

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Everyone wants to be loved. It is human nature. It's deeply planted in us. Sadly, many look for love outside of themselves. Loving yourself is the sure path to finding love. Also, it is the channel to give love. When you love yourself, you can give love to others. The secret to finding true, genuine, and lasting love is to love yourself correctly. Steps to selflove. 1. Don't fight yourself. Don't be your own enemy. Within you are strengths and weaknesses. Fear and courage. Everyone has them. Accept who you have become. Work to improve. But accept yourself.  2. Smile to yourself.  Smile is a powerful tool that many have not come to know. A smile means I appreciate you. It means, I like what I see. Make a habit of looking in the mirror and smiling at who you see in it. It will boost you selflove. 3. Think of You We are often thinking about the things that affects us. The things that happens to us. The things that surrounds us and t...
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3 Sure Signs you are in the Right Relationship

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IS HE THE RIGHT ONE Uncertainty bedevils a lot of relationships. Questions like....? Is he the right one for me? Am i sure i am not wasting my time? Where is this heading? How can i know if he is the right guy for me? The rate at which relationships fail, make these questions very important. No right thinking person goes into a relationship with the intention of breaking up half way. so, some measure of certainty is required. even if it only gives peace of mind. The big question is, are there signs that can reveal that i am with the right person? The answer is Yes. How to tell if you have found a good man. Respects Each Others Differences This is the first of the signs that you are with the right one. We are all different and relationship does not change that. In fact, relationships amplifies our differences. In a healthy relationship, both parties understand that they have different perspectives and understanding. Skills and abilities are different. These differ...
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